Last week I have talked about the importance of taking the time to nurture our marriage. If we ignore this, things will get out of hand eventually. In the beginning we might still be able to downplay disagreements. However, sooner or later, a pile of problems that has not been dealt with will become a burden to the marriage.
Of course, keeping a marriage in good order is more serious than keeping a home tidy. Still, they are quite similar in some ways. If we pay attention and do not neglect them we can make things a bit easier on ourselves.
Think of this scenario: You receive a phone call from unexpected visitors, announcing that they are just around the corner of your house, planning to drop in shortly. All of the sudden, you are hard-pressed for time. You are in danger of losing it while running like mad through your home to put away at least some of the piled up clutter and cleanup what is absolutely necessary. Imagine how relaxed you could greet them at the door if you wouldn't have to worry about a thing before they'll arrive...
Now, let me say that a lonely home doesn't need cleaning, a family home does. We can't keep an occupied house spotless 24/7. There is no need to. It would lose the touch of coziness. Also remember that people are more important than stuff, so that a comforted child sitting on your lap is a greater reward than having a spotless bathroom.
Having said that, let me share just three things that will help us keep our homes clean:
The whole trick is to stay on top of things: accomplishing a little every day. That way you are facing no or a lesser burden during the weekly/monthly cleaning job and/or the cleanup before unexpected visitors arrive.